Holidays.

Well, its holiday season. And we here at You Are Not the One would like to give a warm happy holidays to everyone.

So whether you’re trapped in a snow storm with some hot chocolate or laying in the sun somewhere, have a great holiday season!

To pull this post back into the point of this entire blog, relationships around the holidays can be tricky. There’s the question of what to give the other person, whether you’re giving too much or too little or what exactly to do with family stuff around this time. But it ends up okay in the end, worrying about those little things aren’t as important as the true spirit of this season.

And if you’re like the three of us running this blog who are perpetually alone this Christmas, there’s always next year and spending this time alone isn’t that big of a deal. Honestly, part of the holiday spirit everyone has is hope. Yes, you may be single now, but who’s to say nothing’s going to happen in a month? Or within the next year? No one but yourself. For now, try to enjoy single life a little. It’s not going to be that way forever.

But have a happy [insert whatever holiday you celebrate here to be culturally sensitive] and a great New Year’s! And keep asking questions or advice. We’re always here!

~Julianne